Judith McAdam is our newest regular writer and we are thrilled to have her on board. If you haven’t seen it already, make sure you check out the visualisation track we created with her – it is available to purchase on our site right now. Below, we are sharing a sneak peek of her fantastic article on negative and positive momentum, which appears in our Winter 2018/19 issue. Check here for your nearest stockist, or subscribe to receive a copy direct to your door.
This is taken from our Summer 2015 issue. Subscribe here to have the autumn issue and the following three issues delivered direct to your door.
By Amanda Collins
When you enter your home, you should feel your spirits rise, for your home is the outward expression of your inner life. If you’re ready to attract love or enhance your present relationship then prepare your home as if you are already in that loving relationship.
The first step is to make your home clutter free. Clear out anything from past relationships – gifts, photos, love letters, anything with an old love’s energy on it. This supports you in letting them go. Next, create an open space in your closet for a future partner’s things. Add eight empty hangers to say “I am welcoming you into my life. I have space and time for you.” Make room in your drawers too, creating equal space for your belongings and your partner’s. Give unwanted items to someone who needs them, a charity, or a recycling centre, always honouring the earth as you decide where such things need to go.
Your bedroom is the key to creating a sacred home that welcomes the love of your life. Televisions or exercise paraphernalia don’t belong here, and electronic equipment should be placed in an office or separate work area. Arrange items such as nightstands and lamps in pairs. Within those pairs, organise items of similar size; if one lamp on a nightstand is much larger than another, this will create an imbalance in the relationship. Whatever you do on one side of a pair, do the same on the other.
Display artwork that suggests romance and intimacy. Anything that does not serve the bedroom’s function, that of offering rest and romance should be removed; this includes photos of friends and family. Colour matters too. Earth tones are soothing and grounding but you might also add small accents in the red spectrum, such as pinks, maroon, or berry. Try to create a room that is neither too feminine or too masculine. Find a balance so both feminine and masculine energies will feel welcomed and honoured in the space.
Assure yourself that you are supported in life and love. Your bed should be positioned so there is enough space to walk on either side. You should not sleep in line with the door but should see the door from your bed. It is best not to sleep under a window or have the bathroom on the other side of the headboard. And size matters when it comes to your mattress! If you are single with a single mattress, you will stay single, while a King size mattress doesn’t encourage romance either. Queen size is perfect for love. It is best not to sleep on a mattress from a previous relationship, but if you must, give it a clearing with some sage. Also remove clutter from under the bed so energy can flow freely.
Rose quartz is the gem for love, compassion, healing and romance. Place two pieces on your nightstand; carry the gem in your purse or car. As jewellery, allow your gem to rest on your heart. As the southwest corner of your home is the area for love, place two pieces of rose quartz or two peonies – the flowers for love and romance, here. Treat yourself lovingly every day and do not wait for someone else to. Use your best bedding of satin or silk and wear your best underwear and nightgowns. Light your candles; buy yourself flowers. To attract love you need to be, first of all, completely loving with yourself. Be in that vibration of love in order to receive it.
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This is taken from our Summer 2015 issue. Subscribe here to have the autumn issue and the following three issues delivered direct to your door.
This is an excerpt from our Summer 2015 issue. Subscribe here to have the summer issue and the following three issues delivered direct to your door.
By Amanda Collins
When you enter your home, you should feel your spirits rise, for your home is the outward expression of your inner life. If you’re ready to attract love or enhance your present relationship then prepare your home as if you are already in that loving relationship.
The first step is to make your home clutter free. Clear out anything from past relationships – gifts, photos, love letters, anything with an old love’s energy on it. This supports you in letting them go. Next, create an open space in your closet for a future partner’s things. Add eight empty hangers to say “I am welcoming you into my life. I have space and time for you.” Make room in your drawers too, creating equal space for your belongings and your partner’s. Give unwanted items to someone who needs them, a charity, or a recycling centre, always honouring the earth as you decide where such things need to go.
Your bedroom is the key to creating a sacred home that welcomes the love of your life. Televisions or exercise paraphernalia don’t belong here, and electronic equipment should be placed in an office or separate work area. Arrange items such as nightstands and lamps in pairs. Within those pairs, organise items of similar size; if one lamp on a nightstand is much larger than another, this will create an imbalance in the relationship. Whatever you do on one side of a pair, do the same on the other.
Read the rest of the article in our summer issue.
This is an excerpt from our Summer 2015 issue. Subscribe here to have the summer issue and the following three issues delivered direct to your door.
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Reprogramme to attract your dream partner
Patricia Lohan, aka the Love Alchemist will launch ‘The Soulmate Attraction Formula’ this February. Using a practical, spiritual and emotional approach that has proven successful for clients, and Patricia herself, this step by step approach will help women attract the man of their dreams through healing, creating a vision of the future, and making space emotionally and physically.
Patricia said, “The Soulmate Attraction Formula is about helping women to meet their soulmate without compromising themselves. This integrated approach attracts not just any man into ones life, but the right man.
The Soulmate Attraction Formula empowers women to become emotionally clear to raise your vibration and attract the kind of man you deserve. It gives clarity to the type of man you are looking for. It will teach you how to make the mindset changes you need in order to realise that you deserve your ideal relationship. It will reassure you that the man of your dreams does in fact exist.
The Soulmate Attraction Formula helps women who are in a vicious cycle of attracting the wrong type of guy into their life to reprogramme themselves, their mindset and make simple changes to help in their search. It will show women that finding the ideal man is not a mystery. Finally, it explains that being single is not a sin, but that emotionally we haven’t been able to let the right man in and we have never been taught how to raise our vibrations to attract the right man into our lives. That is until now.”
If you are in a last ditch attempt to find the man of your dreams, feel like you are “stuck” in a particular pattern in dating and relationships, or that you keep attracting the same type of man into your life – the wrong man for you, you are not alone feeling that frustration.
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Patricia Lohan aka The Love Alchemist is a vibrant and life-loving woman, who has travelled the world and been exposed to a world that as a child she could never have known existed. Her own journey to love has been a fun, hard, painful and exhilarating rollercoaster. By her mid-20s, she was a disaster when it came to relationships. She split up with her long-term boyfriend, thinking the relationship was the issue. A few men later, she was still miserable & decided to quit her job as a restaurant manager, move to India, and become a yoga teacher (how very Eat Pray Love!).
Returning from India, life was so much better in all aspects, except love. Lots of meeting the wrong guys followed by heartbreak and rejection. Rinse and repeat.
Patricia began working on herself and relationships and changed how she saw the world and ultimately attracted the most wonderful relationship into her world. He came into a room and sat down beside her, just like that. Her growing romance with Ken (yes his real name) showed her how important it is to be aligned with the right person and how much power their union has created.
Patricia never set out to help women find their soulmate but after doing it herself and welcoming the most wonderful relationship into the world, she began to help friends and clients do the same thing. She recognised how important it is to be aligned with the right person. Combining everything she learned from personal experience with formal training, she created The Soulmate Attraction Formula’, a streamlined, seven week course for single women who are fed up with bad relationships.
This isn’t a wishy washy course – but very actionable, easy-to-follow steps to help women change their mindset, clear blocks from all areas of their life, and manifest the love they really deserve.
Q: I really want to make money from working at something I love but I’m not sure how to approach this or even what direction to go. Have you any advice on this? Work and money can be a slow process to get where you want to be, I just wondered if you have any great insights or advice to share on this? Especially as a woman who seems to be working in things you love!
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By Dee Wallace
You have to understand that money is an emotional creation, like everything in the Universe, it is created by love or the lack of it. The more you love money, love making it, love creating it, respect it, honour it and cherish it, the more it shows up for you. Like any great relationship, it responds to you the more you want to be with it and value it.
Our society and religions teach us this is not okay, that we are “better people” to live without more than we “need,” that we have to struggle and work hard to have the right to have enough, that we are not worthy, that money corrupts our moral fiber, and many other false beliefs that limit the flow to us of the abundant wealth in this world.
Let’s look at a quick breakdown of what is going on with you. The first limiting belief to address is: “work and money can be a slow process to get where you want to be.” Why? Who gave you that thought or belief? You certainly didn’t come IN with it! You came in knowing you were all possibility! Invite yourself to expand into the new thought that there is nothing easier and more effortless than doing what you love.
Next, get clear about what that is. What rocks your boat? What are you passionate about? What gives you that excited feeling when you think about doing it? Now start exploring your possibilities about THAT. How can you begin? Let yourself play in and accept all fabulous possibilities available to you!
The last hidden belief here is that you don’t really believe that “working” and “fun” and “loving it” go together. I do a million things that others call work, but for me, they are exciting expressions of creativity that I choose to play in. Repeat after me: I love life!
Right now you are saying to money: I don’t need to love you, but I expect you to be in this relationship with me. I am making you the excuse of my lack of creation, because I am not choosing and deciding what I want. I am not taking any action to invest in this relationship. If this were a personal relationship with another being, how much do you think they would want to participate in this with you? Most of us would see the lack of intention and commitment and run the other way.
Of course, like anything, the first step in creation is loving yourself. Be the person you would want to fall in love with, and be dedicated to yourself and the love for your own being. Then you will want to give you everything, including doing what you love and making money joyfully doing that. State with clarity and knowing: I Am the God of Me that gets to create me the way I choose. And then choose. You are worth it and you deserve it.
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Dee Wallace has worked as an author, teacher, dancer and actress in film, television and the stage for over 30 years. (E.T., Cujo, The Howling). Her book, Bright Light, tells that tale and shares the spiritual lessons she has learned from a life in acting.
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By Dee Wallace
I want to talk about Being Creation. You are. And when we move into total acceptance that this is an absolute truth, our bodies, minds, emotions and consciousness shift into a powerful creation machine that is basically fool proof. Sound too good to be true? Then it will be…for you. Those of us who joyfully choose to commit to the creators that we are, create the lives we want because we create ourselves first.
We choose to be the God that chooses the thought, chooses the emotion (even though we may not ‘feel’ that way in the moment), chooses the open heart, and chooses to hold the focus no matter what. We are the Gods that are in charge of our creation, and then the One Energy rushes forward to support that.
Here are all the things we need to remember about being The Creator of Us:
What else could possibly be left to ‘do’ or ‘know’ if we truly know we are the creators of us? But if we do insist on keeping that belief, we have to keep ourselves creating the lack and the struggle and that keeps the very drama going that we are insisting we want to let go of. Kind of like being addicted to alcohol or sex or drugs; we can become addicted to “getting better” or “getting there”, as opposed to knowing; we are already there.
The patterns of having and not having, getting and losing etc. show up because we create, and then we stop. This happens most easily at the moment when we have finally created something we want, then we coast and stop creating! Every moment we are creating, consciously or unconsciously, and therefore we must stay in Conscious Creation.
Get up and direct your day. If you fall down, pick yourself up, get yourself out. Choose the reaction and the creation of the reality of You. Direct yourself to Know, to Be Clarity, to Be Health, Be Wealth. Be everything your heart desires. Know it’s not only possible but that you deserve it because you create it that way, consistently and continuously, ever-flowing. Take a moment to relish and experience the freedom of that. Be the frequency of Grace and the be the balance of masculine/feminine and child energy in the radiation of your light. Be the love for yourself that is the Creative Force. Celebrate you, my magnificent and open-hearted friends and people I love.
Dee Wallace has worked as an author, teacher, dancer and actress in film, television and the stage for over 30 years. (E.T., Cujo, The Howling). Her book, Bright Light, tells that tale and shares the spiritual lessons she has learned from a life in acting.
Clothe yourself in confidence.
By Dee Wallace
There seems to be a cycle of fear when it comes to the feeling of isolation or not belonging. I don’t belong because I judge > I create separation > I am alone > I am isolated. How do we overcome those feelings to create a more positive, comfortable state that can attract even more of those feelings in?
It can seem a daunting task to know we are safe and secure and part of everything and always taken care of. We have plenty of proof to the contrary. But yet we know that the belief always comes first and the apparent ‘truth’ has only been created by the original limiting belief. If that is true, it must follow that when we really change our perception to knowing we are safe and secure and taken care of, the ‘truth’ of that must emerge as our reality.
By saying and believing, “I am loved,” “I am never alone,” “I am safe and secure,” “I am blessed and supported,” we create the realities of just that, and create the lives we want. Which brings us back to love, Divine Love, which supports all of this. Divine Love is a choice, and we are honoured to have that choice, and we are honoured to make that choice. And that choice brings us to personal power.
We must claim our personal power to right the wrongs of perception that have haunted us. Will you stand with me and claim your personal power to choose Divine Love? Allow yourself to know that you are safe and secure and always taken care of. The personal power of the acceptance of yourself as the divine creator will end the fear of isolation. Beautiful souls, it is time to fly free! It is time to know: I Am the One. Which lovingly leads us to..
The Breakthrough?
The perceived outcome and expectation we hold, equals the outcome. That puts even more power back into our creation process.
The challenge is this: ?All our lives we have been telling ourselves lies that were passed down to us and that we accepted. The biggest lie is that we are not sovereign over our own creation and we have lived that as a truth and thus created proof of that lie as truth.
Now we are telling ourselves the real truth: I am sovereign over the creation of me. I am the One. And because it is new, we fear it is a lie but the truth is, the past is the lie. The ‘now awareness’ is the truth.
If you find an antiquated piece of clothing from the sixties hidden in your closet, you laugh, perhaps reminisce, and discard it as outdated and unusable. We need to do the same with any dis-empowered thoughts and perceptions. We need a new ‘Thought Wardrobe’!
Of course, one of those faded, unwearable thoughts is that we are not safe and secure in our power. Old shirts and dress beliefs! Appreciate when you wore them, and acknowledge they are outdated. Instead, welcome new thoughts that fit and suit the new consciousness of You.
“I benefit in a safe and secure way when I step into my Freedom. I am secure in this world to exercise and experience my power.”
The time is now. Regarding every thing you desire to create, what is your perceived outcome and expectation? That is the beginning of your power. Hold yourself firm in the joyful expectation of your successful creation and receivership.
Dee Wallace has worked as an author, teacher, dancer and actress in film, television and the stage for over 30 years. (E.T., Cujo, The Howling). Her book, Bright Light, tells that tale and shares the spiritual lessons she has learned from a life in acting.
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